today i asked around and learned that the game is called toghiz qumalaq, a name a friend translated as "nine pieces of sheep shit". i searched around and found the a web site discussing the rules. the site also indicated that the translation that i got was closer to what the game is called in kyrgyz, but maybe the kazakh word for "pebbles" and "balls of sheep shit" are not so far apart.
i have a small collection of board games from around the world. so i suppose i should find a toghiz qumalaq set before we leave. the one i played on yesterday was plastic. i would prefer to get a more classy old fashioned set. maybe one that uses real sheep shit!